How Can I Get My Ex Back?

How Can I Get My Ex Back?

My ex-girlfriend was testing her feelings for another guy, going on a date with him to see what she loved most;that guy or me. My ex-girlfriend who I had talked about marriage, too. A few weeks later I found out that she was going out with the guy because he's more your type. Since that day, my ex and I became best friends and she loves me more like a best friend ... I've been talking to all my friends about it and they all tell you to move on and find someone better. I still love her and be with someone just going to make me think it over and make myself single again. How can I earn your love for me as more than a friend?

This is a difficult situation to be in, and even as an eternal optimist, I have to say things do not look good for you. You are looking for the end result to get back together with your ex. Where should you be looking for is why the feelings of his ex changed to begin with ... First, your ex did this is, well, for lack of a better word, shit. Just shit. For me, it is clear that this woman is not worth your time and you should listen to the advice of his friends. As I said, it takes two people to make it work again.

The first thing I ask is: Have you talked to your ex and let her know how you feel? You said to be "just friends" is not good enough and that you need it most? If you have it and do not share their feelings, then read on ...

You see, your ex get to have your cake and eat it, too !! Not only did she get to be with this new guy, but she gets to keep it on the hook as a friend. Personally, that's a lot of good and Urban Dater by laws Dating & Mating, bylaw 11, section 4, clearly states that: "In life, as in all things, there must be balance. If your significant other, friend, or relative ex, seems to be doing a good business is well within your rights to spoil your "good deal". "That is, Brody, your ex need to lose something. That something is your friendship.

In order for your ex to take you back, this is a conclusion that she has to get on your own, you can not force her to make this conclusion.

I've been in your situation two different moments in my life. Each time was destructive to me. Women were the women I loved. When the relationship ended or had a "falling out" I tried to remain friends with these women, mainly because I loved them and wanted to be with them. The problem is that they did not want to be with me. I tried to be a friend. My feelings would get in the way ... I could not be just friends with these women. With the first, she was my first girlfriend, first love; you name it. She returned with her ex ... She wanted things to be as they used to be before we started dating. The thing is that you can never go back. No matter how hard you try. I had to go and it was painful. Very painful. I was a mess for months. She would call, I would not take her calls. She would come to my house and I would not answer. She would come to my work and I would like to ignore it. I knew what I wanted from her. I could not have it and just "be friends" was not enough for me and it was very difficult. I needed time. We lost contact possibly ... But I learned a lot, not.Sometimes you just can not do what is friendship.

The other girl I was hanging on, well, that was a doozy of a situation. It was bad all the way around. My feelings became too deep to this other woman. No launch in history, it was clear to be friends at that time would not work. Stop being friends. It took about three years before we can even talk. Now I can be friends with her ... That's something boa.Não there is an opportunity for romance, though ... And I'm okay with that.

Here's what I think you should do:
stop being friends with this girl. Cut yourself out for your own sanity, for your "self presevation." I mean it.Stop it completely. 
Take time to think about your feelings and, you know, mourn the loss of this friendship. 
Try not regret it and stay home. Do not chase their Facebook pages or anything assim.Fazer other things that keep your attention. Go to the gym. 
Be social. It's the thing you want to do the least, but the only thing that will help you more. 
Focus on you. . Take care of yourself and the things you need to take care 
Once you actually started in yourself, then it's time to open up to the date novamente.Minha suggestion is to go out with a number of different women; perhaps women that you normally would not leave. Of course, increasing confidence is one reason, but getting there, finding different women shows what you can and can not deal with in a relationship. 
I hope this helps. 
The Urban Dater

OK? We know that Brody K is not looking at the above advice, he's looking for the real "products." Is anyone looking? Brody K, here we go, man, I just write these things up to throw people off the track. You want your ex back? There are ways to do this.

• First, do call your ex. Not obsessively, but enough to let them know you are there for them. Sometimes telling your ex that you feel down or needs your help on something does wonders. It's the thing "hurt puppy" you are going to here.
• Do not cut your ex off and not talk about it for periods of time. Try to find something you can blame her, give her the feeling that she needs to "make peace with you" somehow. Pro tip- be unavailable and not pay attention to a woman it works well most of the time.
• Keep your common group of friends, arrange times when you can leave everything to your ex will be there. She may have a new face with it. Here is where you need your friends. If your friends want to help you get back with your ex, you can have them give "friendly advice" to your ex about the guy. In other words, your friends would trash the new guy, but make it sound like a genuine concern, as they are helping your ex by trash-talking this new guy.
• Do bring a new girl to the flock. It has to be a girl like you, but someone you can be with and show your ex that you do not revolve around it. This works bem.Confie me.