How to Save Your Relationship Even If you’ve Broken Up
You're about to learn
the first steps on how to save your relationship. It doesn't matter if you are
divorced, separated, or just broken up - this information very much applies to
you.
When a relationship ends, it's ALWAYS preceded by obvious signs. Most of us don't pay enough attention to these signs - as a matter of fact, we aren't even aware that there were any loud warning signals. So when the breakup comes, it hits us as a ton of bricks.
That's where the good news comes in. You see, the fact that you are broken up does not mean that you can't make it work out again. Let's take look at the most important things you need to know:
When a relationship ends, it's ALWAYS preceded by obvious signs. Most of us don't pay enough attention to these signs - as a matter of fact, we aren't even aware that there were any loud warning signals. So when the breakup comes, it hits us as a ton of bricks.
That's where the good news comes in. You see, the fact that you are broken up does not mean that you can't make it work out again. Let's take look at the most important things you need to know:
1. Allow your ex his/her space
you are probably dying to contact your ex right now. You can do this if you wish this breakup to be permanent. On the other hand, if you do want to saveyour relationship, please don't fall into this trap - do not call text, email or anything else. You need to give your ex the space she/he needs right now. It is a crucial part of saving your relationship.
Don't gossip!
You may be tempted to talk to your friends about your ex's shortcomings, to make yourself feel better about the breakup. Whatever you do, resist that temptation. Right now you are in a very frail emotional state, and every negative opinion you share with someone else about your ex and relationship is bound to be blown a bit out of proportion. And remember, even a friend can have a slip of the tongue. You don't want anything like that coming back to your ex.
Enjoy life - take time alone!
Although it may seem like it, your ex isn't the only one in need of space right now - you are too. This is actually a good thing. All you need to remember is that the two of you are going to get back together again. Rest in this knowledge, and go spend time with friends, etc. - enjoy your life! Just be YOU. Because guess what? That YOU are the very person your ex fell for when your relationship started. It makes you a hundred times more desirable to your ex.
Take responsibility
whether something is your fault or not (in the relationship), take ownership of it - scan yourself to see where you can find responsibility. This may sound strange, but if you practice this while being away from your ex, you will be blown away at how well things will work when you two reunite.
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